Children's Rooms

很多人宁愿生活在痛苦之中，也不愿意解决自己的问题。（波特．海宁格 – 家庭系统排列大师）
Many people prefer living in pain than to have their problems solved。
 

恐惧使你不敢面对它；而不能面对它，正是你的恐惧的来源。
Your fear prevents you from facing it,And yet not facing it is the cause of your fear.
 

压力来自感觉自己的能力比事情所需要的小。
Pressure comes from feeling that one’s strength is less than what the task requlres.
 

「困难]是以为得到的比需要你付出的少。
Difficulty comes from thinking the gain is less than the cost.
 

软弱的感觉，来自把注意力放在自己不能控制的东西。
The feeling of weakness comes from focusing on things that we cannot control.
 

每个人都想有更好的明天。就算自杀的人都想有更好的明天，只不过他以为那不能在这个世界找到而己。
Evenybody wants to have a betten tomorrow,even a suicidal person,only that he does not believe it can be achieved in this world.
 

智慧就是去接受，当你能够接受世界上的一切,你便有最大的智慧。
Wisdom is to aceept.When you can accept everything that happens in the world,you will have supreme wisdom.
 

想去拥有的，只应是使自己积极、奋斗、努力、启发的东西；而不应是使自己埋怨、失望、孤立、懊悔的东西。
Things we want to have should only be those that motivate, invigorate,stimulate and enlighten us;and ot those that make us blame ,despair ,disconnect and regret.
 

你会先检查袋里有多少钱才决定进入那一间饭店。只有未长大的孩子才吃了再算，因他们总有父母代为结帐。由此可见：长期的经济问题和不负责任的行为，其实就是在心里上仍是孩童的表现。
You would check the money inside your pocket before choosing the restaurant for your dinner.Only children would eat before they check,because the can always cou-nt on their parents to pay for them.From this we may understand:
cronic Personal financial problems or irresponsible behaviors are just indications of having not grown up as adults.
 

想任何事情有好的改变，有一条最有效的方程式，只要三个步骤:
1.相信事情有改变的可能，
2.找出一个与以前不同的做法,展开行动，
3.不断修正做法，直到效果出现为止。
最难是第一步。很多人都希望而又不相信有可能。
For anything to change for betten,thene is a veny effective formula,consisting of only three steps:
1. believe that change is possible,
2. find a way different from those tried before,and stantdoing it,
3. keep adjusting whatyou do until you seethe nesults you want.
Step One is most difficult.Many people want the change but do not believe it to be possible.